When a Loved One Refuses a Dementia Evaluation: What Families Can Do
June 15, 2026
The signs are hard to miss. Your mother used to balance her checkbook to the penny — now the bills are going unpaid. Your father, who has driven the…

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June 15, 2026
The signs are hard to miss. Your mother used to balance her checkbook to the penny — now the bills are going unpaid. Your father, who has driven the…
June 15, 2026
When a family member starts asking the same question three times in an hour, or gets lost driving a route they've taken for thirty years, what follows is often a…
June 9, 2026
You may still remember the exact words the clinician used. “Dementia.” “Alzheimer’s disease.” “Probable Lewy body dementia.” For many families, everything after that becomes a blur. The fear is…
June 9, 2026
A dementia diagnosis is one of the most disorienting moments a person — or a family — can face. The fear is real. The uncertainty is real. And so is…
June 2, 2026
A clinician in my Mental Health + Aging Certificate program recently asked a question. He was reflecting on the opening module — the one where I lay the foundation for…
May 13, 2026
"This is probably the last few chapters of her life. And I made it worse. I lied to her and I betrayed her and I don't know if I can…
May 12, 2026
The plan was already made. The family had toured the memory care facility twice, signed the paperwork, and arranged for movers to collect her things the following week. But when…
May 6, 2026
"I feel like I'm doing time for a crime I never committed." That's what one of my older patients said to me in our very first session after…
April 29, 2026
I was settling in for a long travel day on an airplane — when I found myself in one of those unexpectedly meaningful conversations that remind me why I do…
April 15, 2026
Imagine waking up every day not knowing whether to grieve or to hope. Whether to set a place at the table or quietly put the extra plate away. Whether to…
April 1, 2026
What if I told you that nearly half of all older adults — not a small, extraordinary handful, but almost half — actually improve their cognitive and physical functioning as…
March 25, 2026
I want you to picture someone I'll call Margaret. She's 74 years old, sharp-witted, funny, and deeply engaged in her community. But lately, she's been misplacing her keys more…